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Strange things happen during Halloween

Unfaithful to what I pledged last year, I had a bit of Halloween celebration. That is, by dressing up. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a far cry from my decade long style of celebrating this pagan custom. And as the old saying goes, old habits die hard.  Right or wrong, my kids and I always treated this occasion as a photo opportunity. Thus,


You must agree with me that Miguel’s eyes, reminiscent of the Village of the Damned, added to the creepiness of the photo.

My sons’ pictures above were regular; nothing special nor spectacular. However, when it was my turn, this happened.

The  second picture below, using an I phone, was taken by the lady whose head was mysteriously included in the photo. Don’t ask me what app was used because we did not use any. In fact, the photographer, the owner of the floating head, freaked out.

Strange things do happen during Halloween.

Goodbye Halloween!

Of all the exciting holidays, Halloween was my favorite. Halloween is fun and exciting.  Besides, it is very colorful.  You get to pretend you are a ghost, a fairy or a princess.  What could be more exciting than donning a witch outfit to terrorize the kids and then give them candy? Because of my ghostly collection of costumes and decorations, yearly, my village becomes festooned with monsters and ghostly ornaments.  For eight years, our family ancestral house became the venue for these happy halloween celebrations. In my workplace, the celebration became office wide because of me. In fact, a Catholic school decided to celebrate it for a time because of my decors.  Halloween became a tradition because of me.  I never thought I could be that influential. However, this year, I’ve decided to end that tradition because it’s wrong. So I started giving away my precious collection. Why precious? Despite the ghastly appearance of  my decorations, some of them are hard to find collections. One third of my collection  has been with the family for years.

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This is Salem, my older sister’s stuffed toy cat. It is a thirty year old cat, hence practically an antique.

I have porcelain witches and battery operated grim rippers. I have hundreds of witch hats, some of which (no pun intended) were imported from the US and Europe.  Most of my neighbors were puzzled by my latest act of giving these decors away. So what is the real reason behind my  latest act of generosity?

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One third of  my collection of horrors.

You see, Halloween is  never a Catholic tradition. It is actually the Feast of Demons. It is said to have evolved from the Celtic holiday of Samhain. According to several accounts and legends, witches from  far and wide congregate on October 31 at a designated place to worship and have orgies with the under lord,  or Satan, for us Catholics.   Although staunch supporters of this tradition  justify  their celebration by saying  modern Halloween has become less about literal ghosts and ghouls and more about costumes, it still remains to be, the feast of demons. And demons are real. I have recently witnessed demonic possession.

Credits to the owner of this photo.

It is very unfortunate that while I surreptitiously took pictures of the lady being exorcised,  the memory of my cellphone got erased.  For easy imagination, the scene looked like the picture above.

The possessed lady which was seated at my back was  breathing heavily at first which graduated to more tiger-like growls. I tried to ignore her because to my mind, maybe she had autism or otherwise,  suffering from really terrible colds. What freaked me out was when she cackled loudly like a witch and her mouth  spewed some kind of ectoplasm, only it’s white, not green.  Being a very devout Catholic,  I dashed off to the next pew and  reached out for my Rosary.  ( A black belter is no match for this supernatural, tiger growling possessed lady!)

Anyway, after about an hour of delivering several kicks and inflicting bites on the Priest and his prayer warriors, the possessed lady began to calm down and cry. She seemed so consumed and physically drained.

How does one get possessed? I am no expert on the subject but according to the priest who exorcised the lady, one reason  is  failure to observe the day of worship. For us Catholics, we are mandated to hear mass on Sundays.  Another reason why people get possessed is their observance  of pagan practices or in my case, extreme fondness for the macabre.

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My children, RG and MM love to play with these severed heads.

The reason why I am writing this is to inform you how a simple pagan practice could actually lead to demonic possession. This is not to say that I was previously possessed, or then again maybe I was.


My Lost and Found Boys by Atty. Marianne Aningat-Guinolbay

This is a scene from the Disney movie’s Peter Pan

Knowledge of Disney movies is incomplete without Peter Pan. Peter Pan is a character created by Scottish novelist and playwright J. M. Barrie. A mischievous boy who can fly and never grows up, Peter Pan spends his never-ending childhood having adventures on the small island of Neverland with the Lost Boys.

RG dressed as a Peter Pan.
RG dressed as  Peter Pan.

Peter who is a lost boy himself, acts as the leader of the Lost Boys, which include Tootles, Nibs, Slightly, Curly, and The Twins. The Lost Boys is a band of boys who were lost by their parents in various ways and came to live in Neverland. While this only happens in fairy tales, the idea of not growing up and getting lost is never a happy idea. As a mother of two lost and found boys named Ruben II (RG) and Mariano Miguel Guinolbay (MM), I momentarily experienced the harrowing experience of missing my children-literally.

I do not know if getting lost has something to do with our genes. When I was six years old, my older brother Luis and I got lost at St. Lukes Hospital. Using my cat like abilities, I was able lead us back to the hospital room where my mother was resting with the new born brother (Ramon).  The family was of course in a state of  panic when my brother and I went missing for an hour.  On the other hand, my younger brother, Mario, epitomized Macaulay Culkin’s role in the Home Alone movies. Mario first got lost while our family was shopping in SM Cubao. He got lost again while we were in Baguio. He was lost for the third time while we were having our television set fixed in a repair shop in Tañong, Marikina.  When he got lost for the third time, he was only 8 years old.  According to his “founder”, Mario demanded to be returned to our home using a taxi, not a tricycle. Of course, Mr. founder returned Mario to our house on board a tricycle.

My brother Mario, at the center. The author is wearing a Snowhite costume
My brother Mario, now all grown up, at the center. Beside him is a neighbor, Eden Concepcion. The author (Marianne Aningat) is wearing a Snowhite costume. This picture was taken  during  RG’s halloween/ costume party.

On 12 October 2012, RG got lost because his nanny was then too busy texting her boyfriends. RG, then 7 years old, went missing for two and a half hours. Thank God he managed to reach MM’s school which was practically at least 1.5 kilometers away from where he was last seen by the nanny.  The guard who recognized him at the gates said RG asked for water as he was very thirsty and very tired from walking.

Rg's picture taken during his 7th birthday. He went missing for two hours a month after.
Rg’s picture taken during his 7th birthday. He got lost  for two hours during  the next  month.

On 03 September 2015, my younger son, MM had a quarrel with kuya RG, and allegedly stormed out of the house at 4:00 in the afternoon. According to his yaya, she only noticed MM missing at around 5:00pm.

MMs first costume. H e was unhappy because the Lost boy costume was uncomfortably hot.
MM”s first costume. H e was unhappy because the Lost boy costume was uncomfortably hot.

On the other hand, the tricycle drivers said they saw yaya frantically racing from one street to another looking for something. As suggested by a kind neighbor, I approached six baranggays who helped post MM’s picture within their respective areas. Baranggay tanods 96 and 101 of Pasay City participated in the search.

This is what MM looks like when he got lost. He is the boy at the right wearing a baseball shirt.
This is what MM looks like this when he got lost. He is the boy at the right wearing a baseball shirt.

Thank God again, MM was found after 7 grueling hours at exactly 11:06 in the evening. Two sets of Baranggay tanod met and converged at Protacio street when they chanced upon MM who was on his way back to the house, oblivious to the fact that a kid hunt was already launched to find him. I will not go through the details of what was going through my mind during the seven hour search. My immediate concern then was to keep cool and exhaust all remedies. The whole Aningat clan just felt grateful and lucky that he was found alive and unharmed.

Imagine the feeling of missing your children and the void that will never be filled  once you are faced with the truth that they are never coming back. This should be a major concern especially for parents with children with autism or any other disability.

News about children being kidnapped and killed for their body parts abound. The recent  report on GMA News TV’s “News To Go”  talked about  four  children declared missing in Bauan Batangas. A witness has told police investigators that  one of the victims  was  a  14-year-old victim, a resident of San Pascual town, kidnapped by three men while inside a passenger jeepney. The police are still identifying the motive behind the kidnapping as the victim did not come from a rich family that could provide ransom, the report said.

After my second experience (hopefully the last!) of losing and finding my son, I decided to write this article to help parents prevent the loss of their children and to give them tips on  what  to do in case a child goes missing.

To kidnap proof your children do the following:

  1. Have a password between you and your children. Your children should be taught to go only with persons who  can invoke this password.
  2.  Constantly remind your children that if they are lost/missing, they should stay in a nearby McDonald’s restaurant. If there is none in the area, he should stay in a reputable establishment like 711 or Jollibee. They should be advised to stay put at all costs and NOT to go with strangers who cannot invoke the password.
  3. Children who are prone to wandering may wear a t-shirt with details showing  his name and parent’s contact number. I personally had three shirts printed with this information:          MM. GUINOLBAY

       GSIS Legal



Involve the entire community as much as possible. I am very fortunate to grow up in Marikina where the neighbors care about each other and even celebrate Halloween and easter-egg hunting yearly. When I was forced to relocate, I was lucky again to find a place in Pasay where neighbors also look out for each other. On the day MM was missing, a neighbor told me that he saw MM headed towards Protacio Street at around 4:00pm. The point is, your neighbors act as your eyes and mouth if they see something irregular. Some of them out of concern, even told me that my children were being maltreated by the previous yayas.

Community celebration
Pirate party with the neighbors.
During a halloween party with the neighbors.
The author during a halloween/costume party with some neighbors.

5.  Educate the yayas  about the  importance of informing you asap if the children are  missing or are not in their usual place.

What to do if your child is missing:

  1. Immediately go/call to the your local law enforcement agency.
  2. If your child is missing from home, search through:


Piles of laundry.

In and under beds.

Inside large appliances like ovens and refrigerators.

Vehicles/Cars  – including trunks.

Anywhere else that a child may crawl or hide.

  1. If your child is lost in a mall or food establishment, notify the store manager or security office if your child cannot be found when in a store. Then immediately call/ visit the Police/ your local law enforcement agency.
  2. Remember  when you go to the Police:

Provide the Police with your child’s name, date of birth, height, weight and descriptions of any other unique identifiers such as eyeglasses and braces. Tell them when you noticed your child was missing and what clothing he or she was wearing. Give them copies of the  enlarged picture of your missing child. Although you will be advised that they only act on reports after  24 hours, some cops would act immediately if they are informed that  the children are diagnosed with autism or any other learning disability.

  1. Have the missing child’s  picture downloaded and enlarged asap. State in the poster the  name and information of your child as well as your contact numbers. It is very important to have two alternative numbers i.e. globe and smart. Print at least 30 copies of the  poster for dissemination with the nearby baranggays and your childrens’ schools. In MM’s case, his teachers in Pasay Alliance  Christian School (PACS) helped in disseminating his pictures in Facebook and other social media. The teachers helped in finding him too.PACS
  2. Involve willing neighbors in the search. Most people are naturally concerned if little children are missing.
  3. Ask the nearby baranggays for help and posting of your child’s pictures.
  4. Ask the tricycle drivers’ help in posting and disseminating your missing child’s pictures. In my recent experience, they were very much willing to help.
  5. Assign a person with a car/transportation to go to the places where the family regularly  visits.  When a child with autism goes missing, it is important to quickly identify any unique interests the child has and create a list of their favorite places.  Mm and RG  love pet stores and  railways. Whenever we pass by Fort Bonifacio and SLEX,   we occasionally  see trains. I am aware that some children with autism are also fond of trains. Good thing we did not have trains in Pasay because if we did, MM would have gone to the railroad tracks to watch the trains go by. In MM’s case, nobody ever imagined he would reach Taekwondo Headquarters at Vito Cruz corner Taft Avenue, on foot.

Helping one another is a natural instinct among Filipinos. When a loved one goes missing, the psychological impact on those left behind can be overwhelming. My family just feels very lucky to have my children returned to us unharmed.